The meeting was across the river. The life Sonny M. wanted was on the other side.

What do you do when the place you need to go is sitting across the river from the last place you saw two people you loved?

That is where Sonny M. found himself when he walked into Plinky’s for his first recovery meeting. He was 19, ashamed, and already carrying the grief of Reagan and Zach, who died in a car accident after a day he thought would end in anger and a fight. Sonny did not go to the river that day. That night, the people he cared about were gone.

Sonny grew up close to recovery. His parents met in NA, and his mother has shown him what long-term sobriety can look like. But when his father returned to drinking after 25 years, the family changed. Sonny started moving between two homes, trying to fit in, and drinking at 14. The rooms were familiar, but they did not yet feel like his.

When the old life stops working, recovery can begin with one honest moment and one person willing to answer the phone.

There's a moment in this conversation where Anthony Good talks about getting his job, his car, and college back, then losing all three within two weeks. He'd found a way to look like he was doing well. He hadn't learned how to live there yet.

Anthony has four and a half years clean. He's spent years in prison, lived through relapse, and carried the kind of guilt that turns into another excuse to use. He told us he used to beat himself up over the father he'd been, then use that pain as a reason to pick up again. Recovery meant something different had to happen. He had to stop making his past a reason to give up on his future.

His kids became that future. Anthony talked about being present, caring, and loving in ways that still catch him off guard. He grew up around violence, trauma, and loss, and he's made sure his own children get something else. They don't know the anger and abuse he knew. They get a dad who shows up.

"If I Can Stay Sober, Anybody Can." And He Means It.

"I'm seeing the world with new eyes. I'm thinking with a new brain."

That's Ben M. now. We first met him in 2024, three and a half years sober, and his story stopped us cold. The only boy in a big Hispanic family in El Paso. The fox on the way to school. The law license he lost. The psych ward he woke up in twice in one week. The single glass of wine on a flight to San Francisco that undid everything. We called that episode Triumph Over Trials. It became one of the most popular episodes we've ever done.

Now Ben's back. Over six years sober. And the difference between then and now is something we think you need to hear.

One Boy, One Fox, One Glass of Wine. And a Comeback He Never Saw Coming.

"I met a fox on the way to school. He got me curious about taking a detour. And before I knew it, I had a donkey tail."

That's how Ben M. describes what happened when he was 13. He grew up the only boy in a big Hispanic family in El Paso, Texas, spoiled and loved, surrounded by three older sisters who treated him like their favorite toy. He got anything he wanted. Then, in a single year, everything shifted. First pot. First blackout, gin and orange juice, 13 hours gone, waking up having wet himself. First time meeting men off the internet, right after his family got AOL. He came out at 14. Skipped school. Found adult bookstores. The fox had shown up, and Ben followed.

What we love about Ben's story is how honestly he tells it. He doesn't dress up the chaos. At 18 he moved to New York City. September 11th happened weeks after he arrived, and the terror of it actually scared him sober for a while. He went to community college, did well, transferred to the University of Texas at Austin. But by the time he got to law school he was a daily drinker, Franzia wine and Golden Girls, suicidal in blackouts. His family had an intervention. He went to his first AA meeting and bought a bottle of wine on the way home. He wasn't done yet.