At nine years old, Skyler Ray decided he was brave. It would take nearly twenty years to find out what that decision was costing him.

At nine years old, Skyler Ray decided he was brave. His mother left him and his brother at a Portland shelter — she said she'd be back with food, and she never came back. Police split the boys into different cars, placed them in different foster homes the same week. In less than seven days, he lost his mom, his dad, and his brother. He told himself it was an adventure. He didn't know he was broken.

We first put Skyler's story out as Episode 22, and it has never left us. When 4D Recovery invited him to perform at their Summer Bash 2026 on June 13th in Vancouver, WA, we knew it was time to bring it back. If you found us after Episode 22 aired, you're about to hear something that changes how you think about recovery.

A Note Under the Door, a Verse at Midnight, and a Walk That Took Decades

"I waited my whole life for this."

That's Aaron Burrell, and what he'd been waiting his whole life for was the moment he turned around in the visiting room at the Oregon State Penitentiary — age 21, three months into his first prison stretch — and saw his father standing there for the first time. His dad had just paroled after twenty years inside for attempted murder and a bank robbery spree. Aaron had grown up with that gang heritage idolized in his own house, and he'd spent his early years trying to fill those shoes under the street name "Money."

From a Tent in Seaside to the Middle of the Program

The night Jeremiah N. walked back to his tent at the Seaside homeless camp, he was praying. He'd been living in that tent, cycling in and out of county jail for years — every cop in the county knowing him by face and name — and something in him finally said enough. He didn't know what enough looked like yet. He just prayed for a way out. By the time he reached his tent, two cops stepped in front of him and two stepped behind him. What happened in the courtroom the next morning is the moment this whole episode turns on, and you need to hear him tell it himself.

We didn't know Jeremiah's full story before he sat down in Studio H with us. We knew him — he's part of a circle of people we love, people who are doing the work — but the story of how he got here is something we weren't fully prepared for. Years of heroin, fentanyl, and meth. An overdose his friends almost couldn't bring him back from. His mom's death unraveling everything he'd built — a custom truck shop, a tow truck, mud bog racing, a life in Spokane that fell apart piece by piece the moment she was gone. He told us he moved to Seaside convinced that a new location would fix things. It didn't. Nothing he tried fixed things, not until he stopped trying to fix things on his own terms.

One Step at a Time — Until the Road Led to 30 Doors

Some people go to hell once. Deena Feldes went many times — and she'll tell you she knows exactly how to get back there if she ever wants to. The fact that she doesn't is the whole story.

From the Bathroom Floor to Everything

That's Kathryn L. — coming up on fifteen years sober — and she means every word of it. Not as a cautionary tale. Not as a rock-bottom speech. As a daily choice to remember where she started so she never stops appreciating where she is.

Kathryn grew up south of Boston in a house where alcohol was as ordinary as furniture — a stocked liquor cabinet, homemade sambuca her father made from scratch, parties of a hundred people with pig roasts and kegs of beer. She took her first sip young and felt something she'd spend years chasing. By middle school she was sneaking pints of Southern Comfort into her backpack. Her senior superlative was "most dedicated to social life," and she wore it like a badge of honor. What followed were decades of blackout drinking, tumultuous relationships, a brief marriage that ended almost as soon as it began, the sudden death of her mother at 25, and a father who told her a week later to get over it.

One sock. One moment. Thirty-plus years later, he still carries it.

He was out of money and out of reasons. At the end of a long night with nothing left, Paul O. had a plan and a bridge in mind. He ran a quick inventory of the people in his life — and convinced himself, one by one, that they'd be better off. Then he got to his mother. And something stopped.

That moment — where his mother's unconditional love became the only thing standing between Paul and the end — is where this episode begins. But it is not where it ends. What comes after that bridge is a story about 13 years of sobriety, a trip to New Zealand that unraveled all of it, a completed First Step that took 13 years to finish, and a lesson about burgundy socks that we promise you will carry long after you stop listening. You need to hear this one.